Cuckolding, Hot Wife and Polyamorous Relationships
So in this blog we are going to touch on 3 subjects that hit the headlines and papers in popular demand in 2016. Although all 3 have been around in some form or another for hundreds if not thousands of years.
We start with the first Cuckolding. So what is it, who is it and whats it all about. Time for a little history lesson. The conversation about cuckolding might be new but it’s anything but new. In fact William Shakespeare used the term as an insult a lot. This was because back in the day the most insulting thing you could imply about a man is that he didn’t have full and complete ownership of his wife. Taking it even further back, Cuckold came from the word Cuckoo. It implies that the husband is deceived, that he is unaware of his wife's unfaithfulness and may not know until the arrival or growth of a child plainly not his (as with cuckoo birds). The fetish of cuckolding - where men allow other men to have sexual relationships with their wives - is on the rise and even featured in article in The Independent and Metro. but why you ask? well its a huge turn on thats why, within the fetish communities and non fetish communities. Unlike the traditional definition of the term, in fetish usage a cuckold is complicit in his (or her) partner's sexual "infidelity"; the wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is called a cuckoldress if the man is more submissive. This isn’t like swinging, and it’s not a threesome. Cuckolded men (aka "cucks") only observe their wives’ infidelities, they don’t participate. And that's why they find it a turn-on: They're left out, looking on as the woman they love climaxes with a better man than them. It’s a form of psychological sadomasochism. Some people get turned on by whips, chains, and physical pain. Cucks get aroused by mental anguish.
A cuckquean is the gender-opposite of a cuckold, derived from Middle Engish in 1562. A cuckquean is a woman with an adulterous husband. In modern English it generally refers to a woman whose fetish is watching, and deriving sexual pleasure from watching, a man having sex with one or several women besides his girlfriend, fiancée, or wife. A cuckquean fetishist is aware of her spouse's activity, sometimes actively encouraging it,and derives sexual pleasure from it. Among fetishists, the cuckold's humiliation or victimization is a major element fantasy and pleasure for all parties involved. When the fetish is simply heterosexual, the wife has sex only with her husband; when it is bi-sexual, the wife has sex with both her husband and the other woman, or only with the other woman.
cuckolding has evolved and the 'Hot Wife' has been born. A “hotwife” is a married woman who often has sexual relations with different men, with the approval of her husband. The Hot Wife would go off to meet another man in a hotel or else where for sexual encounters, to come back to her husband the next day, all wet from the pleasure she had the night before and tell him all about it. This usually results in passionate sex between the husband and wife because both parties are extremely turned on. It has known to be great for relationships, but is rarely tried by people who have just started a relationship or only just moved in together.
So the above 2 extremely satisfying fetishes lead me to the one thing that is growing in demand and popularity and thats Polyamorous Relationships. Having multiple sexually or romantically committed relationships at the same time, with the consent of all partners involved.
“Polyamorous communities emphasize love and honesty in their multi-partner relationships.”
This is not to be confused with swinging or multiple relationships, where you are sleeping with the other people or they are friends with benefits, whom you love. A combination of two words: The Greek word "poly" meaning more than one / many, and the latin word "amor" meaning love.) Meaning when a person loves more than one person romantically.